Am I
the only one who has ever received a letter or an email with these words or
words like them? I’m about 99.9% sure
that I am not. Being rejected and told
‘no’ is a fact of life, and no matter how much we prepare ourselves for it, it
still sucks and can sometimes bring tears.
I, just like everyone else, have had my fair share of rejection letters
and emails. The most recent one was from last night. I received this
email on Thursday night after a very relaxing snow day. I slept-in until 11, watched movies, ordered
pizza (so I never had to brave the cold), and hung out with my awesome roommate
all day. By the end of the night, I was
feeling refreshed and just down-right happy… until I opened my email. I had just ordered something off of Amazon
and was looking for the confirmation email when I saw the email marked
‘unread’. I knew that it was either my
acceptance or rejection letter.
Instantly, the nerves began to rise, my hopes began to soar, and my
expectations heightened ever-so-slightly.
As soon as I opened the email, however, all of those things hit the
floor instantly. While I read the words
I knew I had to call my parents. Being
it after 11 o’clock, my dad immediately worried that something bad had
happened. I’m sure my shaky;
full-of-tears voice didn’t help the matter.
Once I explained, both my mom and he were very understanding of the
circumstances. So there I was, a supposed independent college student, in the
middle of the hallway of my residential dorm crying to my parents about being
told ‘no’.
The main
thing that surprised me was that I WAS crying.
I was blown out of the water even when I got an interview, and I knew
that I was a little young to even be considered. Another thing, once I got the interview, the
reservations began. I started to think
about whether or not this was a good idea.
I started to wonder whether I could handle being that far away from home
for that long. Was I truly ready for
that big of a commitment? Honestly… I don’t know, and I will never know. I do know that my plans for this summer are not going to
involve me living in Washington DC, though.
However,
let’s look back at WHY I was crying.
Reread my first paragraph. By analyzing
it, we can see that this summer position receives a lot of applications, and
that it is very competitive to gain a position.
Also, we can concur that they believed I was not ‘right’ for the
job. When I read it, I didn’t see “large
response” or “small fraction of applicants”.
No, when I first read that sentence, all that was screaming out to me
was “You’re not good enough.” And sadly, it’s the truth. I was not
good enough to beat out the other applicants. Reasons behind this? Maybe they’re older,
more independent, and/or more experienced.
Maybe they wrote two kick-ass essays for the application, or maybe they
handled themselves much better in the phone interview (I absolutely despise
phone interviews). The reasons behind me
not getting the job could be huge, but they all mean one thing: I was not good enough.
So there you have it: I was not good enough, and guess what my
reply is: Okay! Sure I wasn’t good enough at this current moment,
but who’s to say I won’t be good
enough next year? You think I’m going
to give up just because I got told no?
If you think that, then you don’t know me at all. But look at it in a different light; I wasn’t
good enough for this job. Maybe I’ll never be good enough for this job! Who’s to say that God doesn’t have a better
plan for me this summer or future summers?
I may not have been good enough
for this job, but you can bet I’m perfect for the job of helping in the new
family business.
So, as you can see; I’m not very
bitter about this rejection. Yes, it still
upsets me, and I truly wish I would have gotten a chance at this amazing
experience, but I wasn’t good enough
for it. Maybe next year… or maybe
not. I’ll follow whatever path God makes
for me, and currently that path leads home for the summer. I want to thank everyone who helped me last
night and today. My family and friends
have helped me not really ‘get over it’ or ‘forget about it’; but instead, see
the light of the rejection. I may have been rejected, but I wasn't stopped.
And who knows??
Maybe I’m meant for
something even bigger.
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